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Mum Michelle Foreman sets up group ICU Baby Steps

Gemma Gurdler, Michelle Foreman and Rebecca Castle - all taking part in Zumbathon.
Gemma Gurdler, Michelle Foreman and Rebecca Castle - all taking part in Zumbathon.

A woman given no help after her baby left intensive care has set up her own support group.

Michelle Foreman's six-week-old daughter was incubated and on life support due to a condition that causes a blockage in the nose.

After battling for life in Evelina Children's hospital, based at Guy’s and St Thomas’ in London, baby Kyeira was discharged.

Michelle Foreman with baby Kyeira
Michelle Foreman with baby Kyeira

But for 35-year-old Michelle, of Wellington Road, in Westgate-on-Sea, near Margate, it was a daunting task to look after her daughter without any medical assistants on hand.

She said: "You don't know how to start feeding them again, their sleep routines - it's overwhelming."

"There is no aftercare until you have a follow-up appointment and some patients can wait six weeks or more and I was sent home and taken away from all medical expertise and left to look after my child who’s suffered a life-threatening illness.

"So you suffer a lot of anxiety and worry.

"Emotionally I wasn't dealing with it well, so I decided to set up this support group and Evelina hospital very quickly signed me a paediatric intensive care nurse to help me.

"A year on we're getting parents contacting us wishing to join."

Michelle hopes her support group called ICU Baby Steps will give parents a chance to share their experiences in a friendly environment, with hopes of arranging an annual day trip.

She added: "You get over it quicker if you talk about what you’ve been through - it's placed in your brain rather than being in the forefront."

Michelle's single-handed advertising has led to groups being set up in five hospitals in Kent, but she is optimistic she will get them in every hospital around the country.

She said: "The hope is for every children’s ward in the country to have my posters - the need for these groups is national."

The first big fundraiser for the group is being held at Hartsdown Leisure Centre on April 29 – and it is a four-hour Zumbathon.

Mum Gemma Gurdler, 29, from Margate is taking part despite her child never being in an ICU.

She said: "Michelle asked me to help out and having a small child - this care is something I may need in the future."

For more details on ICU Babysteps, visit www.icubabysteps.org or phone 01843 831581.

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